I feel like a character from Game of Thrones, crying that winter is coming.
I spent most of October being sad that the summer is over. What I learned about myself is that I take too long to do things. I should have stopped mourning the end of Summer in September.
Although Fall does give me a feeling of hopefulness and optimism, I usually ignore that and focus my energy thinking of all the things I hate about the winter.
But I recently decided to become the type of person who does not waste energy in worry about things she can’t control.
And the weather and seasons changing is not in my control.
I decided this year to use my energy to think about how I can maybe have a better winter.
The things that bother me about the fall and winter season are always the same. My clothes don’t seem to fit right I’m always cold, and my nose is runny.
My hope is that focusing on what I have control over will allow me to be in a less negative state and I can prepare for a more comfortable winter.
It seems obvious that I should have a warm coat and a scarf and hat and gloves every winter. After all, I have dealt with winter my entire life. But although I should know these things, there are some recent winters I can remember being uncomfortable all winter because I didn’t get a much-needed winter essential.
This time, I’m going to make sure to check that my coats and jackets aren’t in need of cleaning or fixing and that I have a hat and scarf and gloves that I will wear.
Another thing that happens is that my clothes don’t ever seem to fit right during the winter. [Read more…] about Winter is coming